Thoughts for the Day
Good morning,
“Working for Pain”
How you love is just as important as who you love but how you got hurt will never be as important as what you do to heal. How you think will always be reflected in what you do; positivity produces goodness, negativity produces misery. Life is cause and effect so it’s not always about what happens to you, it’s more about your understanding of it and what you decide to do about it. Pride is tricky; it clouds the vision of love. It will use your past to make you think you can’t handle situations God has already worked out for you. Aside from what the world tells you, real love doesn’t hurt, but the wrong relationships will have you convinced that it does. Know which ones to hold on to and which ones to let go. Your ability to measure the quality of a person stems directly from the scale you see yourself on. If you’re always dealing with people who don’t measure up, you’re dwelling in the wrong weight class. Protect your heart don’t neglect your heart. When you avoid love all you have left to find is pain. There’s no need to harbor hurt and resentment, when you’ve learned from the situation there’s no purpose in holding on to the pain it brought you. Some people are so fascinated with remembering their pain; all they think about are the bad times, the arguments, and the disappointments, and that’s why they’re so bitter, angry, and pessimistic. If you hoard hardship, you can’t be surprised when all you get is hard times because that’s what you’ve surrounded yourself with. Take responsibility for choosing to stay, for refusing to compromise, and for ignoring the little things. Nobody forced you to play yourself. It takes two people for a relationship to come together and regardless of what your pride tells you, it takes two people for it to fall apart. When love is lost, it doesn’t matter who takes the blame, your heart still pays the price. Ask God for a clean heart, he can renew your spirit and give you insight for the future. Don’t be one of those people who consistently chooses the wrong way but blames it on everybody else when they get lost. Learn when you’re given the chance to, if not you’ll hurt more and more every time life hits you. Love isn’t hard, people are just difficult. You had to lose what you thought you wanted, so you could find the patience to wait on the things God has always known you needed.
Just my thoughts good people, just my thoughts
Rob Hill
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