June 2012
2 posts
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May 2012
22 posts
Thoughts for the Day
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“Find Acceptance”
There is a fine line between love and dysfunction. There is a distinct difference between passionate and crazy. Beware of the little things you find yourself doing to confuse either of the two. Acceptance is such a huge factors in people’s lives today. The ability to accept something, be it good or bad, is pivotal when it comes to change and...
Maybe's
“Maybe’s”
Maybe it was never supposed to be what we thought it would be
Maybe it was just supposed to be a few good dinners to fill the lonely nights
Maybe it was just supposed to be a sign that there’s still reason to have hope for happiness
Maybe, it was just something that could’ve been more… but wasn’t meant to be
Maybe it was never supposed to be a forever kind of thing
Maybe I...
Thoughts for the Day
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“Trust what’s in your heart”
Sometimes you just have to trust what you know. You may feel crazy, other people may not understand, but you have to trust it. You’ll get advice, you’ll hear opinions, you’ll listen to people’s thoughts, but at the end of the day you have to trust what’s in your heart. Nobody knows what’s best for you like you do. Get people around who care more about you...
Thoughts for the Day
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“When you just don’t know”
Some feelings you can’t describe. Some situations you can’t find words for. Something’s you can’t make sense of because you just don’t know. It’s only so long you can fight what’s right. You can run as far as you want to but what’s coming to you will get to you, eventually. Find the courage to believe in yourself regardless of what happens. Accept failing...
Thoughts for the Day
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“Relationship Hope”
Be careful of the things you do to yourself that take away your hope for better things. Realize that hope is a balance of experience and faith. When it comes to relationships, hope is when what you’ve had meets what you feel you deserve. It’s when what you’ve been through doesn’t limit you so much that you stop believing in the possibility of getting something...
Thoughts for the Day
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“Guard Your Heart”
Don’t allow your emotions to influence you into making the same mistakes that brought you pain before. When you know better, you’re responsible to yourself to do better. You can’t play the victim forever. You can’t keep walking down a dead end street expecting it to magically be an interstate. Be smart enough to recognize when things aren’t going anywhere. Learn...
Thoughts for the Day
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“The company you keep”
You have to be careful in forging friendships and relationships with people who don’t care about what they do. If they don’t think enough of their bond with you to want their actions to reflect you in a good way, you don’t need them in your life. See, what a lot of people in relationships fail to realize is that they are a reflection of their...
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Whoever You May Be
“Whoever You May Be”
I’m tired of trying to figure out who’s real and who’s not
I’m tired of spending every day wondering if love really is what I believe it to be
I’m tired of going through the motions and not taking chances
I’m tired of allowing the pessimist to push me to my precipice
It’s frustrating feeling like I’m crazy for having hopes for something real
I’m done with the run...
Thoughts for the Day
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“Misunderstanding your Growth”
Be on the way to who you are despite the limitations anybody tries to put on you. It’s not always easy trying to grow out of what you’re used to, but greatness does not come from being comfortable. It’s tough letting go and losing people you care about, but you can’t lose your dream trying to hold on to somebody God’s going to remove anyway. If somebody...
Thoughts for the Day
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“Put it out there”
The assumption that somebody just “knows” how you feel is one of the worst assumptions to make. Don’t assume that because you know how you feel, everybody else is aware of those feelings. You have to communicate and put things out there. If you’re expecting somebody to read your mind, you’re asking to be disappointed. A lot of people complain about getting hurt,...
Thoughts for the Day
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“Genuine Love”
Be the reason somebody smiles. Be the reason somebody believes. Be the reason somebody finds hope. Sometimes the most comforting thing in this world is knowing you’re not by yourself and knowing you’re understood. Take the time to listen to somebody you care about and actually receive what they are saying. We all deal with pain, disappointments, and heartbreak, but...
Thoughts for the Day
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“Unstoppable”
Nothing can stop you. It doesn’t matter what anybody has ever told you or what people believe is impossible. Nothing can stop you. It is never too late to be the greatest you that you can be. Don’t allow your mistakes to intimidate you and make you feel behind. Without learning the lessons from those mistakes, you can’t get ahead. So what if you’ve made the wrong...
Thoughts for the Day
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“Instincts and Intuition”
When your heart tells you you’re right, don’t think twice when a mouth tells you you’re wrong. Trust your instincts, it’s the part of you that won’t allow you to be taken advantage of. So many people make the mistake of second-guessing whether what they’re doing is right or wrong according to other people. Everything...
Thoughts for the Day
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“Unappreciated Giving”
Don’t underestimate the effects of your actions. What’s small to you may be big for somebody else. The little things that you feel go unnoticed could be the same things that make a persons day. Don’t stop doing good things because of people, do good things for you, do good things because good works attract goodness, and earn favor. If you’re feeling...
April 2012
19 posts
Thoughts for the Day
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“Take It Slow”
Sometimes the best approach towards love is to take things slow. If it’s meant to happen, then it will happen when it’s supposed to. Have the patience to be sure that you’re building something real. There’s nothing wrong with taking things one day at a time. Don’t rush love; if you do, you’ll fall into a situation with somebody who wants to care for you, but isn’t...
Thoughts for the Day
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“The Things To Take”
Don’t make somebody else completely responsible for things that you allowed to happen. Certain things are beyond your control but taking accountability makes it easier to take action. Learn how to make a situation yours, stop giving people the power to give and take your smile as they please. Take responsibility for the things you could’ve changed in advance but...
Thoughts for the Day
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“Exceptions, Expectations, Disappointments” When it comes to disappointment, making exceptions is always more dangerous than setting expectations. Acceptance plays a major role in happiness. Most people can’t find their joy because they don’t accept their mistakes. Happily ever after requires a lot more persistence than it does perfection. You have to want something enough to work...
Thoughts for the Day
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“The Struggle for You”
Personal battles are the hardest battles to fight. The mind and the heart have a crazy way of working together. Everything isn’t always as simple as right and wrong. Sometimes what you want to be right betrays everything you know is real. Emotions are simultaneously the biggest road block to clarity and the strongest pillar to passion; but your success requires...
Thoughts for the Day
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“Passion”
One of the most attractive things anybody can be is passionate. Passion is what drives great love. Passion is what guides great careers. Passion is what matures potential into purpose. If your life is ever stagnant, it’s probably because there’s an absence of passion. The problem most women face is that they get passionate about a man before they’ve found a passion for...
Thoughts for the Day
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“Your Relationships with People”
So many people give away valuable parts of themselves for nothing. And it’s not the absence of self worth, it’s more so the inability to stay disciplined. A lot of people know what they’re worth, they’re just foolish enough to believe that their actions can’t decrease their value. If you call yourself a friend, act like a friend. Don’t just be...
Thoughts for the Day
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“Changes and Expectation”
At times, it’s hard not to become frustrated when things don’t change, but the wise thing to do is adjust your expectation for it. The only thing “wrong” with expectations is when you expect something from somebody you know they can’t provide. Don’t get your hopes up just to be consistently let down. Start understanding what you can hope for and what is...
Thoughts for the Day
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“Successful Thoughts”
You aren’t as limited as you make yourself feel. You have the power to create opportunity for yourself so don’t waste it. Being patient will never have you restless because in patience there’s fortitude. Now procrastination? That will always have you frustrated. People subconsciously create unnecessary obstacles in their lives, but in reality, the only thing...
Thoughts for the Day
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“Pride and Time”
Time is of the essence and no minute past the present is promised. You can’t keep leaving things undone hoping that time will finish them for you and in your favor. Stop sitting around waiting for life to cater to you and your wants because it never will. You don’t get the time you waste back, and you’re lying to yourself if you think second chances are promised....
Thoughts for the Day
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“Potential Relationships”
The strongest and smartest thing you can do to protect your heart is know what you want for it. Everybody wants “happiness” but you have to decide what happiness is for you and be able to define it in detail. Understand what suits you best. There’s more to finding love than having things in common and being physically attracted. Most people have the same...
Thoughts for the Day
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“Productive Relationships”
Get productive relationships in your life. Stop allowing people to just take up space at the table; if they aren’t bringing something to it, they shouldn’t be invited to eat. Unproductive friendships are the main cause of unsuccessful lives. If your circle is doing more faking it than making it, it’s probably a sign that you have some weak links in your...
Thoughts for the Day
Good morning,
“Relationships”
Learn how to see things through, regardless of what may come your way. People quit far too easily. You can’t just run every time you get frustrated, especially when its something you care about. Be invested enough in something to weather the storm and still be strong enough to build after it leaves. The problem is not a lack of love in the world; it’s a lack of...
March 2012
20 posts
Thoughts for the Day
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“The limits of your love”
If you put limits on your love then you put limits on your joy. For love to truly be love, it has no limit. Don’t mix pride with matters of the heart, because if you do your ability to love will always be limited. You are strong enough to love through anything; just don’t be naïve enough to love through everything. Too many people mistake...
Thoughts for the Day
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“Forgive For You”
Forgiveness can either propel you forward or it can hold you back. If you can’t let go, you can’t move on. Don’t let the bad things you’re holding on to, block the path of the good things coming your way. Don’t let your anger halt your progress. The only thing to gain from anger is regret; nothing positive comes from it. Staying mad and dwelling on things and...
Thoughts for the Day
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“Life: Plans and Progress”
The best thing you can do for your life is to write down a plan for it. It doesn’t matter how old or young you are, everybody needs a written plan. A plan helps you know where you are, it gives you a vision of where you want to go, and it helps you understand what is required to get there. Don’t become one of those “accomplished” unfulfilled people; a...
Thoughts for the Day
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“Communication, Effort, Understanding”
In order for a relationship or any bond to work successfully it needs communication, effort, and understanding. You have to know how to meet somebody half way and compromise. My way or the highway is the lonely way. Don’t ever get so comfortable that you start allowing what’s convenient to replace putting forth effort. Taking the “when it...
Thoughts for the Day
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“Playing the Fool”
Do not be manipulated. Do not be used. Do not be played. Don’t ever allow your emotions to make you lose your common sense. No matter how much you think you’re in love or how much you think you care, don’t be played for a fool. So many people allow themselves to be taken advantage of in the name of love. They don’t understand that love gives you an advantage, it...
Thoughts for the Day
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“The Rearview”
You have to know who you are regardless of what anybody else tries to make you out to be. Everybody won’t care to see who you’re becoming; some people will only pay attention to who you used to be; but if they’re stuck in your past, leave them there. The best way to limit you is to try and put your past on you; nothing holds people back more than feeling the need to...